The View From My Window Pastor's Weekly Blog

When it comes to fathers some of us won the lottery and others got ripped off. Some of us have dad who are still very vested in our lives while others will have to wait for heaven to see their dad again. There are fathers who still light up the grill, pilot the boat, set up the volleyball net, fix your car…there are fathers who need 24/7 care.

Some of us are fathers. It’s a joy, a responsibility, a moving target. Depending on what stage of life you are in you may be changing diapers, tires or the beneficiaries in your will. What does it mean to be a good father in the phase of life you’re in? Maybe it’s time to change what everyone else has come to expect; maybe it’s time to change what you’ve come to expect. May God help each of us to tweak our serve so that we are ever more effective in blessing our family and setting a godly example for them to follow.

-Pastor Joel Everhart

What if you got a text from your spouse telling you they’d invited Jesus over for dinner tonight? She or he told Jesus you make a really good whatever and now you’re expected to cook for the Lord. What would that feel like? No pressure, right? Jesus in a crowd, Jesus in the Temple teaching, Jesus passing by are all different than Jesus coming to your house to sit at a table across from you, eating food you prepared, talking about…Oh my, what do I talk about with Jesus? The weather? How’s work going? The sinful thought I had at lunch today? AWKWARD!

How do you talk to someone who knows what you’re thinking? I don’t know about you but I think I’d play the role of Martha, busy in the kitchen, not Mary sitting at His feet. Let me demonstrate my love for Jesus not have Him examine my heart… But what if I didn’t know it was Jesus, Creator of the Universe, etc.? What if He just seemed like a really nice fellow, someone easy to talk to with soft eyes and an easy smile?

-Pastor Joel Everhart

Can you even imagine what it would be like to be the first two people on the planet? No parents around to emulate, no one with prior experience to talk to, nobody to vent to about that funny quirk your mate has… And the first birth?! No midwife, OBGYN, or anyone who’s been through it before to coach you through! Our original mother, Eve, must have some great stories to tell. I can hardly wait to meet her and hear about what her journey on earth was like.

No Walmart, not even a Dollar General to run to. No plumbers, carpenters, electricians… No mom and dad to run home to whenever Adam was in one of his moods. Even with all these conveniences, today’s moms are facing unprecedented challenges. Autism and other disorders are on the rise. The insane acceleration of technology; who can keep up with what their kids are learning? Their bodies are maturing at a younger age but their minds are adulting at later and later ages. Eve never had to compete with social media for her children’s attention. Mom, we salute you! May God grant you great grace to fulfill all your roles.

-Pastor Joel Everhart

The dog and I go to bed early. Sometimes I ask her if she’s ready for bed & at other times she starts hinting to me that’s its time. As I laid there the other night, I looked at this lump of fir that took up the space between where I was and where my wife would later be. “Who ever thought of bringing animals into the house?” was the thought that ran through my head. Then I started thinking about the vet bills, the special food we buy for her, the expensive treats we feed her because they contain stuff that’s supposed to help her aging joints… She often snores. If you move around too much in the middle of the night, she’ll growl to express her annoyance. We annoy her. Sometime between 10:30 p.m. and 2:30 a.m. she’ll want to go out to take a leak. We have a doggie door and a string of lights that stay on all night for this very purpose but she doesn’t like to go alone. She’ll wake me up to walk her to the door unless my wife is still up. I love my dog, I don’t know why, but I do. I’d have more money and sleep if I didn’t have a dog but what can I say, we’re dog people.

That must be at least a little bit of what it’s like for God to love people. He’d have a lot less grief without us. He wouldn’t have had to come and suffer such a tremendous price to redeem us if we didn’t exist. Yet He did it & would do it again if it was necessary. All because He just can’t get enough of us. “I don’t know why Jesus loved me…ah, but I’m glad, so glad He did.”

-Pastor Joel Everhart

I can’t help it, whenever my grandkids come over for a visit, I feed them. I always have a stash of their favorites on hand with a heavy emphasis on candy, cookies, and ice cream. While I man the kitchen, my wife pulls out games, toys, and activities. Why? We enjoy making them happy. Their joy brings us a lot of pleasure. A bonus is that they end up thinking that Grandpa & Memaw are wonderful.

This is the essence of today’s text. God lavishes on us wonderful expressions of His grace because making us happy, fulfilled, and purposeful makes Him happy. As a bonus we live in the realization that He is awesome and that our lives would be trashed without Him. Its all to the Praise of His Glory.

-Pastor Joel Everhart