The View From My Window Pastor's Weekly Blog

As a child I was taught that Roman Catholicism was a cult & that the Pope would be the Antichrist. As a teenager I experienced the Charismatic Renewal sweeping across our country & found myself worshiping alongside priests & nuns in some of the most powerful services I’ve ever attended. I have since learned that there are true believers in every denomination (some more than others) & a great many people in the Assemblies of God who do not know the Lord.

I think God takes great delight in “blowing our minds.” That’s what he did in today’s text for the Apostle Peter. Now, mind you, Peter was the head of the church — if anyone was supposed to have everything figured out it was him. Still, the Lord absolutely blew Peter’s expectations out of the water. Keep an open mind to what Jesus has in store for you.

– Pastor Joel Everhart

In August 1977 I moved to Springfield, Missouri, to attend Central Bible College. The drive out there was like nothing I’d ever experienced before: 18 hours. I felt like we’d driven to the other side of the world. Then I was homesick for the first couple weeks. One of the things that helped me cope was watching others more homesick than myself: I didn’t want to be that guy.

Moving away from home is hard but I hope you’ve had the opportunity to have just such an experience. It accelerates the maturing process like nothing else. You experience a culture different from your own. You meet interesting people. You need to stand on your own two feet without Mom & Dad as the easy solution to every crisis. You need to decide if you will live as a Christian or just blend in with everyone else.

Philip was chased from his home in Jerusalem. Rather than sing the blues, he shared his faith with people in Samaria. The results were miraculous. Sometimes change is good.

– Pastor Joel Everhart

I got pelted with a racquetball so hard recently that it left a welt on the back of my leg for several weeks. I often get hit, but this was the mother of all shots. Usually you just make a little joke & go on; but for this one I had to “walk it off.” Typically, I’d guess I get hit with a ball about every third time I play; on this particular day I was struck five times.

When my wife saw the mark (three days later) she thought I had been bitten by an infected tick because of the bullseye design the ball had left behind. You might think that would be enough to cause a person to take up a different hobby, maybe stamp collecting. Not me, I’m not that bright.

The degree to which you love something determines how much pain you are willing to endure in order to maintain the relationship. In today’s sermon I’m going to propose that when it comes to loving people, we learn to increase the love while reducing the pain. Simple changes in our attitudes toward the people we are supposed to love can do wonders.

– Pastor Joel Everhart

When I was a teenager, we had a poodle mix mutt named Fritz that was always dragging something he’d killed home from the woods: a groundhog, possum, raccoon …. So, I decided to take him hunting with me one day. Sure enough, he jumped a rabbit & flushed it right out in front of me. I let go with a blast from my shotgun but missed the rabbit. Fritz made a hard-left turn & ran the whole way home. He never came near me again whenever I had a gun in my hand.

Because I didn’t take the time to train him to expect the gunshot he became gun-shy. I ruined what otherwise could have been a great hunting dog. The truth is, I didn’t know how to train him therefore had no business taking him hunting.

There are a lot of things we don’t know how to do but we do them anyway. Were you really prepared to get married or raise children? Did you expect to be doing half the things you now do when you took the job you have? Was the house you are living in the low-maintenance dream you thought it was when you signed the papers?

We’re actually quite reckless! Sadly, sometimes the victim of our adventuresome spirit is some innocent bystander. We need to do more apologizing than defending; more forgiving than condemning. After all, even though the actions of others can, at times, cause us pain – chances are we’ve caused others pain also.

– Pastor Joel Everhart

Several times throughout my career as a pastor I’ve had church members who I thought were my friends do some nasty things. A few times people have tried to have me fired (one of which had been an assistant I hired in order to help him get his credentials … he was hoping to take my place. Later, those who had aligned with him came back to apologize. Once, a fellow neglected his duties & failed to pay certain taxes the church owed, which put me in a position of facing jail time. He then told everyone it was my fault before he left the church. I’ve been threatened with bodily harm several times … none of the aforementioned members still attend our assembly.

They call to apologize, I forgive them but they have either chosen to attend another fellowship or have quit church altogether. It seems to me that true forgiveness implies restoration. When someone extends forgiveness to us, we ought to embrace it & allow it to work its magic of causing the break in relationship to be welded back together stronger than it was before. Forgive others, but also accept forgiveness. Not doing so short-circuits what God is trying to do in us.

– Pastor Joel Everhart

I play racquetball. The most frustrating moments (sadly, there are many of them) are when the ball bounces exactly as I expect it to, I know exactly where I want to hit it, I take a big swing & completely miss the ball. I used to rap my racquet on the side wall to vent the anger I was feeling toward myself in the moment. I’ve been able to correct that habit by reasoning with myself: 1) it wasn’t the racquet’s fault, 2) if I keep rapping my racquet on the wall it’s going to cost me the price of a new racquet, & 3) it is a rather immature reaction. I now allow the primal yell that bursts from my lungs to suffice as a sufficient cathartic expression (much more mature).

I never get angry at my opponents – I’ve even cheered for them whenever they’ve hit a cracker jack shot – I only ever get angry with myself. I expect to be able to hit a ball with a racquet that is 10 times larger than the ball. I expect to be able to hit a wall that is 20 feet high & 20 feet wide.

Let me add to my list of self-expectations at which I often fail: 1) remembering why I walked into a certain room, 2) remembering to use the coupons in my pocket, 3) driving defensively with kindness & understanding toward all who share the road .… I need a lot of self-forgiveness – how about you?

– Pastor Joel Everhart

We had flown into Washington D.C. from visiting our kids in Utah. It was a Saturday afternoon so traffic would be lighter than normal & we’d be on our way out of town before dark. Unfortunately, there was a 5k running past our parking garage so the shuttle could only get us within two blocks of the place. After lugging our luggage to the car we learned that all the surrounding streets were closed until after the race. Did you know it takes some people over an hour to travel 3.1 miles?

It was very dark by the time we were released. I got befuddled with the directions we had as we got on some beltway that changed from East to West even though I hadn’t exited. We looped around the entire city; we were lost, seemingly to spend the rest of our lives circling the nation’s capital. My head started to hurt, my heart was pounding, I was getting angrier by the minute: angry at road signs, angry at whoever it was that decided to run a 5k in the middle of a city, angry at road design engineers…

That’s a little bit what it’s like whenever you get disconnected from the Lord: you get lost. Your head starts to spin, anger becomes an issue; nothing works the way you planned. Come home. Stop running around in circles & come home – the Father’s arms are open wide.

– Pastor Joel Everhart

My wife found a stuffed cat that can be placed in the microwave to serve as a warmer or in the freezer to use as an ice pack. She wrapped it up for our granddaughter Hannah. Hannah loves cats. When she opened the gift her eyes said it all: Barb had hit a home run. Hannah cuddled & snuggled with her new friend & we couldn’t have been happier.

God has provided some very special gifts for us. When we snatch them up & enjoy them it makes His day. But, if we ignore them, if we chose not even to open them we miss our very reason for being here. When we seek God’s purpose for our life we are seeking meaning, fulfillment, adventure & satisfaction. Keep seeking.

– Pastor Joel Everhart

While you are here being inspired by the preaching/acting of our good friend Rene Kinard I hope to be preaching in Monroeville, PA. I’ve been invited to share on the topic of “forgiveness” at the church where I started my ministry as a Youth Pastor. The pastor there, Lance Lacocq, used to be a student in my Youth Group. At my mom’s funeral we were able to reconnect with many members of that church we’d not seen in decades.

Barb & I left that ministry 37 years ago but were able to pick up with some of our old friends as if we’d never lost contact. Perhaps you’ve had a similar experience reconnecting with old classmates, friends from your military days or people from an area you used to live. It’s a great feeling, isn’t it? And there’s so much to talk about! Kids have been born & raised, careers have been completed, achievements have been accomplished, surgeries have taken place… It’s a little taste of heaven where everyone will be a brother or sister we may have never met here on earth.

Get the summary of your life ready because you’re going to be telling it a lot! Not much to tell? There’s still time. Have a great rest of your life!

– Pastor Joel Everhart

Recently, my wife & I had a chance to visit her Aunt Lois who moved into the Presbyterian Home in Oakmont, PA. She moved there after her son, whom she had been living with, died suddenly from a massive heart attack in October. I don’t think I’ve ever been greeted so warmly & with such delight as she greeted us that day. We took her a butter star cookie & helped her get a small ceramic Christmas tree she had setting on her windowsill to light up. When we left we felt like a million bucks.

Some people just know how to make a person feel welcome. That wasn’t the case for King Herod when Jesus was born. He had a chance to be a part of the greatest event in human history but chose to play for himself rather than consider what Jesus’ birth would mean to all mankind. Don’t focus on yourself this Christmas, light up someone else’s world, then sit back & bask in their glow.

– Pastor Joel Everhart

Driving in to the office the other day I stopped for a school bus coming the opposite direction with its flashers blinking. We sat there for quite a while looking from one side of the road to the other at no one coming from anywhere. It actually inspired a little sympathy in me for bus drivers as I wondered how long & how often they were required to wait for someone who wasn’t coming.

No doubt you’ve been waiting for people you love to come to Jesus. You have prayed for them, dropped witness seeds, invited them to church but so far they’ve kept their distance.

Just like that bus driver will stop at that same stop tomorrow knowing it’s possible that student is ready to go to school, we need to faithfully make our rounds. It’s never wrong to keep working for someone’s salvation but doubly true now. I believe God has given us a window of opportunity, an enhanced, energized boost of His anointing to see people get right with God who have not been interested previously. The time is short, now is the time to make one more round; do your best to get as many to safety as you can.

– Pastor Joel Everhart